Dear Ralf,
Thank you for your warm and prompt reply. I was
very pleased to get it.
I think that the most important thing in relations
is honesty and sincere feelings. The partners have to know at once
what their second half is dreaming about and what she is looking for.
Can I tell you few things about myself?
My name is Yuliya . I was born on July,14 and I will go 23
this year. You may think that we do not match by our
age,but I have another theory on this subject:I think the main
thing is how the person feeling inside,how he acts,what he is doing,
of course,if he is saying that the life is a strange thing in which
he doesn't want to take part,then he is old for sure,not regarding
that he is 20. I'm 5,7 ,and 52 kg.,blond hair,light blue eyes of a
mystery..and light heart too,I've never been married,and I do not
have children,though I want
to some day,may be two: a boy and a girl. I was born in Ukraine and
live here still for 22 years.
I'm also an outdoors person,but I'm sure that everyone has in the life
such moment,in which he wants to stay along,to think about
something,to dream,but how it is great to dream together...?!
I like music,may be except rap and heavy metal..some of my favorite
groups are : Aha,Roxette, Depeche Mode,some works of Moby,may be Sting
and few others.
I like sports ,mostly volley-ball and tennis,aerobics,swimming,
Shaping.
I also like reading books. Mostly it is poetry,but I also like
French,English novels of 18-19th centuries. My favorite American work
is Airport by Arthur Heyly.
Well,I think this is enough for now.
Hoping to hear from you soon,
Yuliya.
My dear,
I was glad to receive your letter.
Though I do not know a lot about you,I feel that
your letters are bringing you to me by pieces,
and may be once I'll have all parts of you.
If I were to talk about my family,I would
say that I live with my father and mother,we are a
very friendly family,and we surely have quarrels
sometimes but the reasons of our quarrels are
always trifles. I have no brothers or sisters,but I
have cousins.
I study at the state University,where I study
literature,both foreign and native. Plus some general
subjects as politics,psychology and etc.
As all girls I prefer romantic melodramas with happy
ends,and my favorite movie is The French Kiss,have
you seen it?
Food...I like French one Chinese and Italian. And I'm crazy
about apples......
It's very interesting for me to know something
new about your country,about your traditions,
about your national dishes,would you be so kind
and tell me all this?
Do you like verse and if you do,what verse you
do? Do you write yourself?Have you ever tried to
do it?
Do you like going out or are you a home person?
What do you usually do during weekends when it's
raining all day long?
Honey,I want to hear from you
soon,
YOURS,
Yuliya.
PS.Dear,write back to Aphrodita_3@rambler.ru
Dear Ralf,
I am happy to receive your letter, which helped me to get to know you
better. And I want to tell something about me and my inner world.
I hope that this can help you to know a bit more about me, and my
interest as well as my personality, I have to say you made a great
impression on me, and I am doing all I can to impress you. but I also
want to tell you, that as tender and loving as I can be, I can also be
a bit of a difficult person to sometimes, and I tell you why ?May be
that has something to do with my Zodiac sign , and these are some of the
things that other people tell about me, and I have noticed a lot of truth
in them, as well as my own description of me:
Creative, Passionate, Loving, sensitive, affectionate, determined, hard
working, funny, active, a great Dancer, a magical chef in the kitchen,
wonderful with kids, great sense of humor, easy going,straight forward,
honest, well balanced right brain and left brain, intuitive, swimmer,
tennis player, ambitious, always striving for better, perfectionist,
warm,
make people feel comfortable at once, interesting conversationalist.
Self sufficient, appreciative, realizing the best moment in life, and
try to enjoy every second of it.
I hope you don't mind if I was carried away a bit , but
these are some of the smallest elements that make me ,
a person ! But I am also a very overly sensitive, stubborn,
no tolerance for stupidity, and I don't like to settle
for less in life!!!!! I am very easily bored with uninteresting
people that have nothing to offer , share or talk about.
I need to know that he is thinking about me often.
I want to make my new relationship to last a life time.
Never compromise for some one you do not love, never
marry a person that you are not a %100 in love with,
thinking that love will come later. Cause once you are
married you better make sure that your partner, your soul
mate, and your lover is the # 1 person in your life.
He or she should get treated better than any one you
have ever lived with or been friends with, you should
never do any thing to make him or her feel less than a
Man or a Woman. You should treat that person with Love
and respect, and to stand behind that person through any
thing in life , a one hundred percent.
To be so close to each other that no one can even dare
to come between the two of you. To be so comfortable with
each other that he or she does not have to find comfort
some where else. To satisfy each other's needs physically
and sexually that he or she does not have to look else
where. Compliment each other on daily basis and tell each
other how much that person means to you and your life.,
and constantly appreciate every minute of your life
together.
I can go on and on and perhaps even write a book about
relationships and about how I really think two people
should treat each other, and to help their marriage last
a life time, but the truth is that non of us are perfect
and that is the time in our lives that we get to actually
practice our knowledge, patience, tolerance, and
understanding, coping with problems, and communicating to
each other, family values and so on...... Only then we
can perhaps make an almost perfect match to an absolute
Love and happiness.
I hope you are not bored with my long letter. If you have any
questions, you can ask them directly.
You know I imagine you as very romantic person and I hope that some
day we can enjoy the time together, drinking wine and listening to
classic music. I also have such feeling as you and i know it is the
beginning of something new and pleasant.
My tender kisses,
Yuliya.
PS.dear,please,write back to Aphrodita_2@rambler.ru
Dear Ralf,
Thanks for your letter, and for your true interest in me.
Well, he hardest thing is to begin as we say, but then everything goes
as it must be. So to tell some words about myself and about my
expectations:
I am looking for a man to be my one and only love of a lifetime.
I have waited to marry because I wanted that one man upon whom my
heart could rest and be content for eternity. My heart reaches out, hoping
to find that connection that will feed it and give it warmth and health and
energy to sustain it and me - to find that happiness that can only lead to
a life of two soulmates truly merged, complete, and fulfilled for the first
times in their lives. I am looking for a
companion who shares all of his soul with me alone, and who I trust so much
that I also divulge all of my most private secrets to. I'm looking for
a man whom I could take care of in any unfortunate times and share in
the glory of the good times.
I am hoping for such a man. Could this be you? I think yes.
All we have to is to find this out so let's know each other better.
I think we can do a lot of good together.
But I am not only looking for a person, I live my life and try to make
it full of joy and little pleasures. It is pleasure for me to go to
the institute and to get knowledge, it is pleasure for me to go with
friends to the gym and to play there volleyball or tennis. I can't
help living without sports! They give such energy and I feel better
when I had a hard game, though exhausted to the end, but so much
excitement! I like swimming very much, though i do it mostly in
summer when we go to the river, and have much fun together,
but I am lonely then, though I am not alone,
I am with my friends, but I lack some special person,
with whom I want to share all the pleasures of my life,
cause all the joys shared, double pleasure from them.
I am hoping for my only and ever half ....
I like listening to music very much! I like most of up-to-date music,
and I like creating something new in the kitchen, I like to make
surprises to my parents...
I adore reading books and watching films, and I don't mind having a
friendly gossip with the girls from my group.
So many things that i even don't know how do I manage to do them all.
And what about you? What do you like to do? And what is the color
of the sky you would like to have over your head?
Hoping to your letter soon.
My tender hugs and kisses,
Yuliya.
Dear Ralf,
Thank you for your lovely sincere letter. All of them support me very much,
they charge me with good, light energy. You know, sometimes I ask myself
why
I went this unusual way to find my second half. Now I seem to understand
it.
In this world we play our roles, sometimes we try to be or seem that kind
of
person other people expect us to be. A man should be strong, self-confident
and reserved. But deeply inside your heart there is a part that needs
warmth,
tenderness and care. I do want to be a woman who you can tell what you
worry
about, your needs and wishes. I'm so happy that I can feel open and
trusting
with you, write about my feelings and thoughts. Being able to trust your
partner, feeling that spiritual closeness is the most important thing in
relationships. If you ask somebody to tell frankly what he or she values in
people (especially a person to be close to), I think, everybody would
answer:
honesty, kindness, sincerity, all the features that allow you to trust this
person. Everybody needs to be loved, so why those misunderstanding happen
so
often? I think, it's not because people are mean or something, they just
can't find the way of communicating, understanding each other. Dear ,
I'm happy that we've found our way. What an incredibly lucky woman am I to
have you in my life!
This rainy morning seems bright and shiny for me, you know why? Because the
sun is inside my heart. Sometimes I imagine us having a romantic dinner
with
candles lit, beautiful soft music comes straight into your soul, and your
warm sincere smile fills my heart with tenderness. I love warm summer
nights
near the sea side, when the pale moon watches from the height and seems to
understand all the romantic lovers. We are sitting in the cafe on the
beach,
roar of the surf, shiny stars twinkling in the darkness make the ambience
of
incredible relaxation. We are looking into each other's eyes , just you and
me.and nothing else matter.
I like to share my dreams with you, maybe some day they will come true.
If you want to make me happy, write to me again as soon as you can, my
dear.
Thinking about you,
Yuliya.
Dear Ralf,
Thank you for your letter,I will try to tell more about myself.
I am still studying and I am going to be a teacher of Russian
language and literature, but I also can teach history, when I finish
my education. It is such a wonderful work, but at the same time it is
art,cause to find the key to the heart of a person is art. And I like
their happy laugh and their strive for knowledge, and their new, not
ordinary look to life. Every new pupil is like a new
diamond with thousand of sides, sparkling and giving rainbows to this
world, which is full of mistrust and evil, and I wish the only one
thing to bring up a personality, who will search for kindness,who will
act kindness,making this world better with every minute of their life.
I like to travel very much, but I do it mostly in my dreams.
And if I had to chose where to live with my beloved, I would like
to share with him everything, though sun sets and sun rising at the
beach attracts me more than anything in the world. But I wouldn't mind
travelling a little, just to see other countries, to learn their way
of life. And in general, I am free to all new experiences, whether in
travelling or in other things, but there is the only one condition,I
would like to do that with the person who is close to me, who is dear
to my heart, and whom I love with all my essence, with whom I feel
that spiritual closeness, which all of us are searching for... If I
were beside such a man,we would bring a new rainbow to this world making
it better with every act of kindness and love.
May be I am carried away a little bit with my philosophy, but it is
inside of me, and I can't keep it anymore. And I feel somehow, that
you are the person I can trust.
Thinking about you,
Yuliya.
Dear Ralf,
The rain is falling outside, and the leaves on the trees are trembling,
and the drops fall down on the grass, and the whole nature
seems to cry. But when the sun rose and the light flood into each
corner then life seemed different.
Even nature seems to have the same mood as I do. Who can help being
terribly sad when the dearest man on the Earth says he'd be separated
by millions of kilometers and I won't read his letters for a long
time?
You know, reading your letter I realized that the real value of love
can be felt only when you lose it. My love is so great that I can't
stand it, and the whole strength of love is the only thing that keeps
me alive.
But the sun is shining brightly, and my heart is full of hope and
happiness. I love the best, the most beautiful man I ever met, and he
loves me, too. And one day, one exciting day we'll meet in person, and
will walk on the seashore hand in hand, and tell each other the secret
words, and look on the stars together... Tell me it'll be so!
Your letters are the sense of my life, and the best way of spending
time is to write how much I love you. But here's one problem: the time
has come to pay for the correspondence. Will you help me, my dear?
I'll wait for your mail day and night!
Be careful.
Please...
With eternal love,
Yuliya.
Dear Sir!
I'm Kate, the manager of the firm which provides Yuliya with
Internet, and does the interpreting.
I have to inform you that Yuliya will be unable to correspond with you
for certain time, because she has some kind of financial trouble and
can't afford to pay for correspondence.
Yuliya called to our office and asked to tell this to you, because she
was worried you could get offended with her possible silence.
If you have the possibility to help her with the Internet expenses or
you have any other idea of solving this problem,
please contact me and we will discuss the details.
We will do our best to help your relations with Yuliya.
If there appear any questions or proposals, I will be always glad to
help you.
Sincerely yours,
Kate.
Dear Sir,
Thank you for your cooperation with us.
To answer your question I will tell you
how it all works.
You write a letter,we receive it,translate,
print and give it to your lady($5).
She reads,writes an answer,we translate it
print,and send it to you($5).
We use to take for 20-30 letters in advance,
but you can also pay $200 a month and then
you will be able to write as many letters
as you want.
If you want to help your lady ,you can send
her money to the address:Ukraine,Lugansk,
Western Union,Aval bank,to Yuliya Nalbat.
If you have any questions,I will be glad
to answer them.
Sincerely,
Kate.
Dear Sir,
Thank you for your cooperation.
I'm afraid the only way to send money
to your lady is Western union or Money Gram
System. We do not accept the money other way
then cash from your lady,and she doesn't have
an account,so you can't deposit the money
to bank directly.
Sincerely,
Kate.
Dear Sir,
Thank you for your cooperation with us.
Yuliya doesn't have an account in bank.
Aval bank has a service named Western union.
You bank might have the same one. So that
you are able to transfer the money through
this service to our bank to the name of
Yuliya Nalbat.
Please check your bank.
Always glad to help you,
Sincerely,
Kate.