Dear Stacey,
... I strive to be a good person. I tend to be talkative, but I am also a good listener. I have a deep appreciation for a good kiss. I value a romantic evening and surprises. Itīs the little things that win me over. I am passionate about almost everything I do. I am working on my career but there is always time for those I care about. I am looking for someone who I can talk for hours and never get borred or tired and the whole time it will feel like they are right there next to me and like Iīve know them my whole life. Someone who will always ask me how my day is going. A man who will like me to rub my hand thru his hair at night and a man I can watch sleeping and smile. Someone who can be the last thing I think about at night and the very first thing on my mind in the morning. Someone who is willing to do crazy and extreme things... all for love... Kiss and Hugs, Rodica Arba Bucharest Romania PS. I live in Europe, it doesnīt matters ?

Dear Stacey,
First of all I want to thank you for the surprise that you have made with the email that I got from you. To be honest I send the letter without to much hope that I will get this positive answer from you. Now, I believe that maybe I am no longer the little girl that I was used to think that I am. I still might be wrong but now I have your support and it is easier. I do act sometime as the same little one, which is thinking that the most important thing is to be kind of a beauty as much as possible. I know that it doesn't count anymore and therefore here you have this new opinion of mine. I will be happy to meet you and to spend some time together. It can bring us closer and it can give us the opportunity to know each other better and made a better decision for the future. I am at the age that I want to find a friend to be together with. It is no good of being alone once that I grow up. To be honest I was thinking too much of me being too busy to finish my studies and to find myself a job. I can tell about my job that it brings me the satisfaction that somebody needs. For the moment I work for an International Import Export Company as a manager. I take care of paper works and contracts. It is not the very paid job but it gives me the knowledge that I will need for the further projects in business. There are some projects I am thinking of but I do not know if I will be able. Finally you have to give yourself a try to find out if you are. I will probably find the right moment once. To speak about me it is always not very easy for that most of Myself I do not know as well. Maybe it is also because I'm not much used to speak about me or also probably because I haven't the opportunity to do it. Or maybe both. I will be happy to be a friend, a close friend with you. That will make me feel better. Maybe than I will be able to speak more about myself as well. It is a kind of training that you have to go through with me. ..I know. I am acting like this because I was too much alone and now when I try to get in contact with you I am acting strange. Do you think so? Maybe I am also like this because I really have not too much to tell about me. Besides my age, 1.72 and something like 56 kg., I do not have much to hide. I do not smoke (much) or drink and my life up to this moment was silent. To write to you, was a nice accident and what I know for sure is that I want to go further with this. I want to build this relationship as strong as possible. Everybody is in need for friends and why not me. I do not feel like staying away from my own happiness. I am ready to come to you or to have you here in Bucharest and try to get to know each other. You just have to name the moment. If we will stay away of each other we will not have the opportunity to find out how beautiful is to be actually together and, this is the romantic person, which is speaking out of me. I enjoy candlelight dinner and a good glass of wine and soft music like you, as well I believe. I like the good music to play with the music of our souls. I am also for nice trips up mountains to sleep on a blanket under the sky full of stars. I like long talks after making love and than making love again. This is the woman speaking out of me. I do hope you agree with this as well. I have found out speaking now with you that people are losing themselves in work or common life and they forget that they exist until, they discover being all alone. It had happened with me as well and I was not very well until I got your letter. Now I have the meaning to strength me and this is making me happy. I have found myself and I am not alone anymore so, let's get together. Do not laugh too much. At the beginning I didn't know how to run from expressing myself and now I make already plans on how this friendship should be like. Hope you agree... I do not have more pictures with me for the moment. I was willing to send some other more but I will try to arrange this maybe with my next letters. I will prepare the original as well. Maybe you want the original rather than the copy you have! I am very modest...Anyway I can tell that I was never married, no children, although I am looking for, when time allows. I have the feeling of a great and beautiful experience that we have already started and I hope that you have by now a better idea about me and about what I am looking for to find in my man. Your lines told me that you are the person that I need and I am sure that I am not wrong. The time will decide for us and, the moments that we are about to share. I am looking for the moment when I will be able to see you. For sure it will give us a better idea about what we are looking for in one person. I am looking forward to your letters. You can call as well, the number is +401.315.67.32. It can bring us closer, in a way... Kiss and Hugs, Rodica

Dear Stacey,
It was a pleasant surprise to receive your letters with the help of the site from your country. It is something good that can happen out of this and I have to say that I am very happy about it. It is a nice feeling to have somebody to correspond with. You can see in this way that the world is so small and the people can be so close even if it is such a big distance between them. It is good with this technique that can bring us our daily mail. To go further I can tell that I am not very special therefore I believe that I am like the other people. Sometime I like to find some clear waters for myself. I am searching until I find them and than I am swimming like everybody else does. I like very much the company of a man, a boyfriend as you say in English but, as a girl it is not always that easy. Being at the age when you are, in a way, vulnerable I said to myself that I am going to find me The One and then it will be easy as well for me to find the world attractive. I hope that I am not to old fashioned, am I ?... I like traveling as much as I like to fly or to have a good pizza but always if possible to share this with people that I care. Loneliness itīs something with not very good taste. The friendship for me is very important and therefore I do enjoy spending time among friends. I believe that everybody can be my friend or rather I have the feeling that I want to be friend with everybody. I can tell that it is a nice feeling to know that all the doors are open if you want to try them. Funny, isnīt it ? Now, if we are already on our deep letters I guess that we have to be a bit mature and I want to say that I am looking to find a friend, a man, a different kind of person to share all I have learned and especially to learn from him what he has achieved best. I like this. I want to grow wise not just old. I like to feel myself in a competition and therefore I have the feeling that I must learn everyday different that I have been learning the day before. Sometime it sounds complicated but with the exercise I can tell you that it is not that hard. Practice, nothing but practice and you will succeed. I will be glad to have some photos about yourself and the place you live. I like to know more about it. I promise I will save money and I will make some special photos that I can send you as well. You will be very proud about them and about me in the same time... Do not laugh... I hope that we will become good friends and, to understand some of my principles it is only up to you. Here you have my part of the share and I am willing to fulfill this beginning. Deal ? I am just happy to find out that I might represent a special person for you. I think itīs important for everyone. Adventure is not something that I am looking for. I wish you now a pleasant day and, do not forget that you have a close friend here even if that far, geographically speaking. Kiss and Hugs, Rodica PS. Maybe we will be able to have a chat on the phone this week end. My phone number as I have said is: 011.401.315.67.32 40 is for Romania 1 is for Bucharet 315.67.32 is my home phone number.

Poem from Rodica

softly brushing past our sleepy brow on the shore sweeping past is both our past and what we endeavor to make for our state of well being right now

I can see and feel the sharp blow of a wind which puts us in a comfort zone and is also forebonding challenge For what we make of our life is what we forge into it and fortify with our thoughts and beliefs

If we could only capture what is the best part and cast away the rest we would be happier and never feel remorse

I meet you now as a bright light among the tall trees I feel the warmth and sparkle of thought and emotion

I reach out to you through the fog extending out with my hand hoping for you to be there

PS. I feel like I have wings now and I send this words to you. Yes, I am going to be there in a short matter of days... PSS. My address is: Rodica Arba Str. Dionisie Lupu 52 Sect. 1 Bucharest Romania

Stacey's letter

I talked to a friend of mine and told him about you and that I sent you money to come see me..... He warned me there are scams out there on the Internet, where European women are ripping people off.......sayin they are going to fly to America to meet someone and dont!! So...I am wondering this.......I have asked you to keep me informed as to what is going on....I asked you by email to let me know when you pick up the money...I know you have picked up the money on Monday...... I am a good guy Rodica....the best you will ever meet.....I dont have money to give away to be stolen from me....PLEASE dont be one of those people that do that.....I told my friend I felt in my heart you just could NOT be like those other women......I told him you were the right woman for me and that I thought you were honest and sincere......loving and kind...all the good things about a woman..... I ask you again to keep me informed for my own piece of mind.....$1000 US dollars is a lot of money.....I had to get the money from my savings account....money that is used only when necessary.......I thought it was necessary to take you for your word and send it to you!! You understand how I feel...dont you? I am not saying you are like the other women.....I dont want to believe you are.....but please dont give me a reason to think that either!! Please dont shame me!! I will talk to you this weekend......I cant wait to hear you tell me when you are coming...... :) Hugs and a special kiss, Stacey

Rodica's reply

You make me very sad... I await for you here. I am real, I am alive and I long for you. If you donīt than, you better stay with your friends...

My dear,
I am OK now but I was hurt. We will be together because it is what both of us are looking for. I do await for your call on Sunday and we will be able to speak more. The paper works are going well and in a matter of days I will be there. There is a small issue that we have to speak as well. I will need pocket money so that I can have with me when I will be asked at the airport. Do not forget that I am in vacation for them in the States and I am not supposed to speak about us. I will might have problems with my entry. You know better how authorities are looking at this matter. Once there it will be easy to travel back and forth easier. They want people to be fair and this is how we will be. We have to prove them that we want to be together and that we ask nothing from them. It is like everywhere. When you ask the authorities things than, they are willing to change your mind for they own sake. Thatīs all. We might go out of Bucharest for the week end but you can call on my brother celular phone. The number what you have to dial after 40 is: 92.209.170 I do wait for your call when you can have the time. Kiss and Hugs, Rodica

My dear,
I just got back from work but before I go to bed I just want to say that I miss you a lot. I feel that bad that it has to take that much of a paper work for us to be together. You have to be strong and we will win. I am, sure as the people from the agency told me that in a week time I will have my departure. It is all because of your government but I donīt care. We have to be together and we will be. No matter what it will take. I will make sue that I will be in September there for that I want to spend my birtdate with you. It will be my second birtdate than or if I may say, it willme my birth. I will be with you... I love it and I need it and I want it. Tomorrow I have to go for a week time in Budapest for my company but I will be longing to hear you on the 3rd of August. I need you... so bad. Rodica PS. About the camera D1 digital as you said, it will be something out of my brother belief to have the camera. I do hope that we will be able to provide him with this equipment. I have fait in you and in your spirit of making things happen. You manage to have me there because, my soul is there... with you, with us.

Stacey's letter

Hi, It has been several weeks now and I have not heard from you..... could you please let me know what is going on? Are you still planning on coming to see me? I have to make plans for September and would like to hear from you as soon as possible....... Missing you in the USA, Stacey

Rodica's reply

I am so sad that I am not there by now and all you think is about money ???

Stacey's letter

Hi Rodica.......hope you are doing ok!! Can you please tell me how the process of the visa paperwork is going? You do not keep me informed! If you cannot get one...I will have to ask for you to send the $2000 back to me via Western Union....... Please email me! Stacey

Rodica's reply

I will be there on the 15th on my birthday... but you have to come to New York unless I will find the conection avalaible... Kiss and Hugs, Rodica PS. You donīt like to wait, do you ?...

Stacey's letter

so you tell me what I am supposed to do, Rodica? I am waiting.....but it should not take so long......you have been working on this for 2 months now...... I have a friend that works in the FBI and I can get him to check on the paperwork of your visa, since you cannot tell me anything.....and since you said the problem was with MY GOVERNMENT.....

Stacey's letter to friend from FBI