UPDATE
2002-09-04
GENTLEMEN,THIS IS MILA POPOVICH AS SHE DENIES BEING A SCAMMER..I HAVE BEEN TO YOUR SITE AND FOUND ALL I NEED...I WROTE UA-DATING ABOUT HER BECAUSE OF MY SUSPICION...AND ITS SAD TO SAY SHE IS SOMETHING ELSE...AS YOU CAN SHE PILES IT HIGH!!...SHE WAS WANTING $2100 FROM ME FOR A VISA..AND THE ALARM WENT OFF...BUT SUSPECTED HER ALL ALONG...NOW SHE WANTS ME TO CALL...OH YEAH I TOLD HER SHE WAS MORE THEN WELCOME TO COME AND VISIT ME HERE,,,,BUT SHE WILL HAVE TO PAY FOR ALL OF IT....SURE THAT WILL MAKE HER HAPPY!!..
Dear George,
Thank you for two wonderfull letter saying how much you care about me
and how much you can trust me. I just don't undertand what the hell you
wrote me if you cannot simple trust me. I was shoked to hear that you
have got some letter telling that I am crook and want to get your money.
I am sorry but I do not understand what you are talking about. So,
please would you be so kind and excplane me what you have meant?
Let me tell you something...
I will be totally honest with you. If you cannot trust me why do I have
to trust you and why do I have to believe that you are true to me. I
have written to several other foreign men, but through our
correspondence I have grown very fond of you! In fact, their are several
messages waiting for a reply, and I have lost all desire to write to any
other men, save you only. But now I can see that I have trusted you for
no reasons.
How do I know who you are? How do I know that you are not just going
play games over my heart? I have had some bad excperienses from that
kind of letters before.
Once I recieved the replayes to my add I wrote back to some and some of
them have asked for a naked pictures of me saying that this is the way
to find out what is my soul was made from. Or some letters asking for
the proff that I am reall by asking me to send the naked photo of me
keeping someones name on the paper in my hands. Do you think it was
funny? Do you think I have to ever proff something to someone? So, after
my rejections to those proposal with the picture, one crazy fellow has
placed my picture somewhere on the internet saying that I am a fake
person.
So, how do I know who you are? How do I know what kind of games you play
over? And you ask me to proff you something? No, you be better to proff
me something instead.
You can call to the agency phone + 380-482-263912 at Tuesday( tomorrow)
at 5pm Ukrainian time. I will be here to hear your voice and to you make
trust in me.
Always yours,
Mila
Here are the letters Svetlana Mila Popovich sent me with
her photos she used.
Her Letters
Hello,
Thank you for responding to my add. First I must say your message has
touched
my heart and made me smile as I think we have more in comon that I thought
from your add.
My full name (in the Ukrainian passport) is Svetlana, but when I was born my
mother used to call me Mila instead of Svetlana, because it is a short one
version from my full name. I was born on 20th of November 1971, I am 30
years
old. I have never been married and have no kids. I have finished teachers
college and until now have been working as an teacher of biology in the
middle school. Then I decided that working as a biologist is not exactly
what
I want and went to finish the Econimic University, as an engineer -
economist.
I am not perfect but I do like the person I have become threw all my
mistakes. Over the last few years now I have been serching for my soul mate
just have not had much luck so I decided to try the marriage agency.
Physical features: weight about 120 lbs and about 5'5 tall, have light
blonde
hair and blue eyes. I live in Odessa, south of Ukraine. It is about 500
miles
from Kiev the capitol of Ukraine. In Odessa is about 1.500,000 people hear
and one million in the bay area.
About my values, I am not very religious but do believe in the Christian
ways. For me I try to treat people the way I want to be treated. I value
honesty the most as without it you can not have a good relationship. I also
believe in building a good family, have good children. By the way I feel
about the way your heart is we could have something very special starting
hear. What do you think? As to what I am looking for in mate: I want someone
to be my best friend first and lover second. Someone I can share the inter
most feelings about me and they will try to understand them and not try to
change them or me for that matter. I want someone how is romantic,
pasionate,
vey affectionate as I love to hold hand and cuddle. Someone who is sincere
understanding and kind. Someone who will take me and my faults and will let
me see theirs. Someone who will walk with me down life’s road, while we go
threw and the wonders and trials that life has to offer loving each other
all
the while.
I am generally a quiet person. I tend to take care of my home. I do like to
read, watch movies, and workout when I have the time. I just try to keep in
shape as much as possible.
I am the only one child in my family. My parents are divorced and I just
lost
my Stepfather due to cancer. Something I hope I never have to go thru again.
He was a great man. It was a really sad way to see him go. But I know he is
in no pain now. My Dad lives in Russia. We talk as much as possible, but he
works so much it's hard to keep track of him. My Mom lives with me and is
doing not very well since the passing of my StepDad. She and I are really
close. She is really great.
I would love to know more about you and what your interest, hobbies and what
you want in a relationship.
Well till next time, hope you have a great day and write back soon as I
really like read your letters.
More pic of me you can find (www.skybusiness.com/czlove/index.htm) chapter
women, page 51, #251.
Hugs and kisses
Mila.
My Dear Ryan,
Thank you so much for your letter, it was very nice. It is such a great
feeling
when I come to the agency and see a letter from you. (You know I am writing
you
thru the marriage agency). I just cannot wait to read it. It looks as if we
have
many of the same interests.
My favorite color is blue, but I also like yellow and purple. My favorite
flower
is the rose, followed by the carnation. As for my favorite food, that is
very
difficult, since I enjoy a number of foods from all cultures.
Pizza, spaghetti, tacos, burritos, various noodle dishes from the Orient,
seafood's like tuna, abalone, shrimp, crab and lobster.
I love to travel and make new friends. I'm very friendly and outgoing and I
love
adventure. I don't smoke or drink but I don't mind if my friends drink when
I'm
with them. I also really enjoy dancing. I really want to learn some of the
latin
dances, but I do not have anyone to learn with. I also really enjoy to
travel.
Tell me where have you travelled? and where has been your favorite place so
far?
If you were to have a dream vacation where would it be? I have been dreamed
to go
to Venece (Italy) since I was 5 years old little girl...Well, I hope someday
my
dream will come true.
>From something I read in your last letter, It sounds to me like you are
very
affectionate. Did I understand this correctly. I think I am very
affectionate
also. I love spending time with my man especially when he is in my embrace.
To me
there is no better feeling than to see my significant other happy. A smile
from my
special man is something which can brighten even the darkest day.
One thing I have noticed from reading your letters is that you are very
smart. It
appears that you have embraced and learned from life experiences, and it is
reflected in your letters. I have to admit, I have been thinking alot about
you as
well...
I am so very happy you want me to come to see you in USA. I think it will be
very
important for me to come to US to see you there for our first meeting. Then
I
will
be able to see your family, your friends and to see the world around you.
Because
at the end when we will decide to spend our lifes together it is going to be
my
home country. I hope you understand me and understand how important it would
be
for me to come to see you in America. I am sure we will have a wonderfull
time,
getting to know each other and then we will be able to creat a plan together
for
our future together. I am waiting for the moment when I will be able to look
into
your eyes, to touch you and to kiss you. And of course I will be able to say
what
I feel towards you by looking in your eyes.
As about my trip to you to USA. I have seen travel agent today, and I have
been
spoke with her about getting a tourist visa to US. So, it is sounds a little
bit
hard to get, but this is possible for me, because the agency have some right
people working for the US Embassy and they can help me to get visa to you.
So, they told me that, I won't be able to get visa if I will just buy a
tickets
and will reserv hotel room, probably you may know how hard it is to get US
visa,
because US gaverment think that if you go to US you will never comming back.
I
will have to proff to your Embassy that I have a good job over here, have a
money
on teh bank account, have a property and that I am planing to come back.
Well, the
agency is going to provide a papers for me that I have something as a bank
account, property and good job Then I will have to buy a tour to US, which
will
proff that I have enough money to buy a tourist tour and two ways tickets.
So,
they have tour which seems like good for us and I could be there with you up
to
four weeks. That tour will cost 2.100$US. This price is totall and including
two
ways tickets, internationall passport and all papers that I need to come
there.
So,
once I pay the money they will start to work out on my visa immadiatelly.
They
have the nearest tour to US at 21st of July. I know it is a lot of money
but....
That means darling that we will be able to spend fonderful time together. I
think
that is fantastic. That would be the best time I have ever had in my
life.Well,
my Dearest Ryan, if we will hurry up I will be able to be with you very
soon.
What do you think about that? Will be you able to take care of my travel to
you?
I would relly like to know more about you, things such as...What is your
favorite
color.. Let me guess is it purple? What is your favorite flower? your
favorite
food? I look forward to reading your next letter
Thinking of You Always, Kisses,
Mila.
Dear Ryan,
I was so happy to hear form you, you really do bring a smile into my heart,
I
love to read your words they are so full of truth and feeling, I just wish
that
they could be said to each other in person.
So many people walk around with a chip on their shoulder thinking that the
whole
world has to bow down at them, they think that they are never wrong and look
down
at you whenever you say something that is contrary to what they state is
right. I
have no time in my life for that kind of person, there is no room for them
in
my
heart, it is so silly to walk by in life believing that anger and pride can
solve
problems, that those words said in that momnet do not really count but
because
one is proud they find it so difficult to take it all back and say that they
are
sorry, that they did not mean to hurt you and that they wish to make it all
better again.
To me love and respect is natural, there is no hiding ones self from his, he
must
know me as well as I know the palm of my own hand, when I look at him I will
feel
full of joy, secure in having made the right choice, knowing that he will be
there by my side till the end of time, my life like a wave of the sea,
rushing
into land not knowing what expects her but reassured that he is there
waiting.
I am often wonder how much time goes by in the days of our lives where we
wonder
to our selves when will it be, when will I meet them, who are they, you
dream
with your eyes wide open, sometimes going to work, ohers walking down the
road,
your mind and heart with your immaginary lover, making him or her up as you
go
along, how very well I understand you if you have ever done the same, I
think
of
you so very often, I go and check my letters at the agency very often hoping
that
you will have written a few words to me, I look so much forward now days to
hear
news of you that it brings me to distraction at my life.
Who knows what the future holds for us, I have no idea what lies behind the
corner of each day, I live every moment as if it was the last one in my
life,
drinking every drop out of the cup of life, so with these words I come to
you
in
this letter wanting to know you so much more, it is so difficult over this
distance, time and space but I have faith in you now, I realise that your
heart
is indeed a special place to be and would be honored of I got the chance to
be
able to go there one fine day and feel it's warmth with mine.
These words of mine are all that I have, they are the only like that I
posess
to
you, I have no other way of letting you know how much it would mean to me to
keep
you in my present day, every day, I am intrigued and want more, I am afraid
but
dare to go forward, I have dreams that I want to believe in but cannot till
I
see
you, there is so much that remains to be said and done, I sit here wondering
where all this is going to lead me, I hope it is towards you, it's only a
wish,
make it come true for me.
So here I am again talking to you as if I really knew you, as if all the
wonders
in the world were there for us to share and I can talk to you without the
fear of
projudice or malice, my words coming from me like the flow of a river, I
have
no
idea where they come from but it is with great joy that I write them as I
know
that they will please you, making you heart run faster, warming you inside
as
if
I was there to hold you close, feeling you for the first time, my words here
are
my feelings and I know that you can feel them too.
I hope to hear from you very soon, I so much want understand all that is
said
and
done between us, please write to me soon, tell me more about your past and
what
you feel about this feeling that is developing, talk to me about your heart,
make
me hear you inner voice as if it was for the first time like a woman without
sight seing the light of day with new eyes.
As about my trip to you. The Agency I am dealing with wants a cash payment
of
Two Thousand One Hundred dollars to arrange my Passport, Visa, Tickets and
all
papers. Sorry my Dear Ryan, but it is impossible to get visa to USA for 100
or
200$, because visaq to Europe cost 350$. Of course, I trust this agency
completely, because I know a few girls why take the same tour and they are
in
USA
for now.
Darling, you can send money on my name and I will pay for everything myself.
With the Western Union you can send money from your credit card.
So, once I pay the money they will start to work out on my visa
immadiatelly.
They
have the nearest tour to US at 21st of July. I know it is a lot of money
but....Ryan, I don't want to miss this chance for us to be together!!!
What will I do after coming to your country? First of all I will learn
english
language very well to not to feel any discomfort while communicating with
you
or
people around me.
Also I would like to get an interesting job, just a little hobby bringing
income, but in no circumstances disturbing our family life. When we have
children
I would like to spend all my time caring about them and you. And only after
children grow up go to school I would return to work.
I look forward to hearing from you and You are on my mind, thinking of
you and wishing you close.
Mila.
My Dear Ryan,
I write to you tonight with my heart in my hand, it is an russian way of
saying
that I am being very honest and true, I read your words and see with my soul
that
what you say is true and meant with all your being.
There are so many mistakes that we make in life, I have made so many of my
own, I
wish sometimes that I could turn back the hands of time and undo all the
stupid
things that I did whilst I was growing up, however I find myself here today
looking back at my past and feeling proud of who I am today, a lot of my
friends
who are doctors and nurses, envy me for the peace that I have found within,
I
love and cherish life in a very intimate way.
I don't know how I can reach you all the way out there, I wish there was an
easy
way to be able to just cross a room and put my hand out to hold yours and be
able
to look at you in the eyes and see what lies there, many are the things that
I
would love to tell you about my life, I suppose that starting from the
beggining
would be the easier of the options.
I am a woman that believes in her word as the only true value that she has,
so
many women today loose themselves in such trivial things not knowing what
they
are loosing, I look at you in your letters that you have sent me, I see you,
I
read your words and hear your voice as you are speaking them, I so wish that
I
could be there sitting by a nice fire listening to you talking to me about
all
that you have to say.
I am sorry if I sound so deep about everything, it is just that I live life
so
deeply and profoundly that I want you to feel me through the words that I
write,
one day who knows I will meet you, at least I am hoping to, I hope that I
will be
able to make your life more special somehow, I do not know how but I can try
if
you will give me the chance.
Till then and hoping to hear from you soon.
Yours Truly
Mila.
P.S. As soon as I will pay for my tour I will know the date and time of my
arrival.
My address:
Ukraine, 65000, Odessa
st. Shulova 41-7
Popovich Svetlana
Hello Dear Ryan,
First of all I want to thank you for all your letters.
Sorry, I can't write you as much as I would like, because I pay for each
letter
5$ with translation. I don't have money. As about call to you, I will need
to
bue
phone card in order to call you from public phone. This card cost money too.
I have start packing my clothes to come to see you, but I still didn't pay
for my
tour. Ryan, the last day I can pay for my tour is 12th July. If I don't
pay,
then we just lost this possibility to be together.
As I have told you before, here is no way to come to USA for 1.200$. You
have
wrong information. It is impossible just get American visa, bue tickets and
fly
for this money. The only one way to get USA visa it is take this group tour.
To pity if you can't understand it. I have been in 10 different travel
agencys
over here and all of them say me the same.
Unfortunatelly I live in Ukraine, and with my local passport I can't go
anywhere.
Wait for your answer and money, because I really want to be with so badly.
Love,
Mila
Hello Dear Ryan,
Thank you very much for your letters and pictures of your family.
Unfortunatelly I can't write you as much as I would like to, because I don't
have
money anymore.
As about our meeting. I still wish to meet you so badly and stay with you.
I have been at the travel agency. The last day I can pay for my tour is 24th
of
July. If I will be unable to pay this time, we will lost our chance to be
together this summer.
I hope this time you will have no problems with the Western Union office and
money will be here at time.
Wait for your answer.
Mila.
Hello Dear Ryan,
Thank you for another letters to me that brings a lot of joy into my heart.
I have got money without any problem and I have already payed for this tour
to
you. The travel agency apply for my passport, as soon as I will get my
passport
done they will put US visa and I will have all information about my flight.
I
let
you know as soon as I will know it.
As the journey of our lives takes us forward into the unkown realm of
existance,
those of us who have not been able to meet the speacial person in their
lives,
find themselves drawn ever deeper into the mistery of their selves, as they
try
to seek the answer for their solitude from within instead of embracing the
world
that is on the outside, let us not make that mistake and continue to write
to
each other focusing on our words and making each other feel special as we
have
done so far.
What I am looking for, well, it is not easy to describe one's lifetime
wishes
in
just a few simple words as you well know, there are many things that I would
like
to have and achieve, but the most important of all, the one and only thing
that
continually makes me think every day of my life till I find it is meeting
the
man
(YOU) that will make my heart sing and my soul vibrate with new life.
I want to be able to settle down with him and live this wonderfull life
together
and create a loving family that will grow around us warming our older years
of
life when we are old and need need them to be around us to remind us of our
youth
and accomplishments.
It does no stop here, there is a lot more, I seek happiness in all the
things
that I do, there are many tipes of happiness as you know, but the one and
only
true state of happiness would be to be able to share life with the most
important
person in the world, the guy that I love, our children and sanctity, for you
that
are so far away it must be difficult to believe in the things that I am
saying to
you. I have trust and faith in you that you must at least find somethings
that I
say interesting and worth while listening to.
I wish that I could prove this to you and make you see with your own eyes
how
serious I am about you, maybe one day I will have that opportunity, would
you
let
me make that dream come true?
Would you let me into your life? Allow me to come close to you? Make you
feel
that my heart is true?
Tell me the answers to these questions, make me have some hope at least that
you
would consider sometime to reach accross space and time and let me take your
hand
so that we could at least be together and see if our words are also feelings
that
make one single moment true to both of us. Would you consider this?
I suppose that with the passing of time we will understand each other
better,
I
must say though that I am sorry that you were treated the way that you were
it is
very wrong, I cannot concieve the manner in which these women have actually
treated you, it is just so alien to me, I have always believed in treating a
man
the right way and standing by his side through good and bad times, especialy
the
bad ones as these are the ones that put both lovers to the test and strains
their
love for each other till it is paper thin and some times it breakes and then
you
are faced with the consequences of those actions.
So many times in life we see what our heart wants us to see and we find
ourselves
regretting that immage, I see you in a light that surrounds you and shines
very
bright, I want to see more of it and every day that goes by I find myself
thinking of you more and more, wondering what you are doing and how things
are
for you, if you have had a good day.
Till you next write to me, my thoughs or with you, hoping that you will be
well
and safe.
Holding you tight.
Mila.
Dear Ryan,
Thank you for letters and I have to admit I have missed you very much, there
is
always that element of anticipation that follows every word that we say to
each
other as all are important and all have a deep meaning.
All considered I consider my self a very lucky woman, I also think that
destiny
has made me see a road that will take me to that place where I have always
wanted
to be, with you, together in a dream of life that I did not see before now,
it is
incredible how life can change from one moment to the next, we all walk
different
paths and all have our own objectives that we aim to and then something
happens
and it changes all that, I have so much in my heart right now, I have
battled
against such strong emotions that at the end of each day I was left drained
of
all energy, I now face the same again having to fight this urge to come and
get
you wherever you may be, find you and hold you, never to let you go.
I sit sometimes in my room at home wondering about life in general,
sometimes
I
just daydream, this morning after I came back from my dayly run I sat down
for a
while and though about you so intensly that I actually though that you where
in
the same room as me, I woke up wondering where you had gone, so you see you
are
on my mind as well and in no small way.
I am afraid that you will find someone else as well, there is alway this
distinct
possibility and I must face it, there must be some women out there that pay
you
attention so to me it is just a matter of time before someone comes along
and
takes you away.
We must make a commitment to each other of some kind, also I think that we
should
at least talk more about getting to meet some time, I can immagine it in my
mind,
the first time our eyes meet and that flux of energy that will pass betweeen
us
attracting us to each other like magnets, pullingus closer and closer till
we
are in each others arms, kissing and hugging, feeling each others body
against
ours.
So I wait to hear from you, I know that I must have patients and that at
this
point in time all can happen to us, we will be together one day and I want
you to
promis to me that it will be soon, let your heart be sure of that and
confort
yourself in that truth, you have to make this thing happen, all I am waiting
for
is to hear from you to let me know if you want this dream to become reality.
With these words I say bye-bye for now awaiting your response, trying to
have
patience but not finding any, trying to stay calm and focused, but failying,
trying to be strong inside, but just melting away, trying not to think of
you
so
much, but impossible, I am so afraid of what is happening, so nervous and
distracted.
I send to you my warmth, my love, my trust, my faith, my desire of you, I
seek
your love with the same strength as life seeks the light, I am letting this
fire
consume me from withing, if I do not see you soon there will not be anything
left
of me.
Gentle kisses all along you neck up to your lips, holding you close.
Mila.