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| Name: |
Elena Kirshina |
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| Aliases: |
Yelena Leonidovna Kirshina
Elena Leonidovna Tarasova |
| City(s): |
St. Petersburg |
| Country: |
Russia |
| Email(s): |
elena_kirshina@mail.ru
elena_kirshina@hotbox.com
clair1@fromru.com |
| Address: |
Konnaya Street
Building #8, Apt. #5
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| Date Added: |
2003-05-30 |
| Last Upated: |
2003-05-30 |
| Description: |
Scams come in every form that one can imagine. This case is contriversial and some do not believe that it is a scam. I have included it here, because at the very least, every man thinking of visiting a woman or bringing her to his home should be aware of it and benefit from this man's experience. In the coming days I will list another similar case where the woman was engaged to and scamming several men at the same time. All of us who are thinking about traveling to meet a woman or having a woman travel to meet us should be very alert and cautious in our relationships. The bottom line is that you should not spend or send money that you cannot afford to do without. |
| Proof: |
Facts: During taking my trip to St. Petersburg in February 2002. I became engaged to Elena on 24 February 2002 after meeting her at first social 18 February 2002. She then asked me for money for a computer modem and for English lessons for her and her son and for a telephone to be hooked up in her apartment. I gave her a total of approximately $1000 for this before I departed St. Petersburg March 2002. I wanted to come back to St. Petersburg to visit her and to get to know her better, but she did not want me to do this and ask me if we could meet some where warm to get to know each other better and it would be more special for her and she suggested either Jamaica or the Dominican Republic as her profession was a travel agency manager. I agreed and we met in Montego Bay, Jamaica April 2002 for 2 weeks and she ask for more money for dental work for her and her son, baby sitting money for her son while she was with me in Jamaica and money to replace her job income since she was going to stop working where she could have more time to correspond with me and get her processing done for fiancée visa interview in Moscow in July 2002. I gave her approximately $1000 to take back with her to St. Petersburg. After I got back home and about the last of May 2002 my friend XXX that I met on my February tour was going to St. Petersburg to visit his fiancée and I sent approximately $100 by him to buy flowers and candy for Elena's birthday 30 May 2002 and when XXX’s fiancée called Elena a man answered the phone and when XXX’s fiancée ask for Elena in Russian he said “Honey” you have phone call. Tim’s fiancée told this to XXX and said that this was wrong of Elena to have a man at her apartment that addressed her as honey when she was engaged to marry XXX and XXX asked his fiancée what she thought about this and she told XXX she did not believe Elena was serious about marriage with XXX and did not think she was a good woman. XXX did not tell me of this until after I got back from my trip to meet Elena in Paris 9 June to 16 June 2002 and after she had changed her fiancée interview date from July to September 2002. I was talking with XXX about Elena changing the interview date and her getting so upset in Paris (She threw a three hour tantrum that included drinking 2 bottles of wine by herself and smoking one cigarette one right after another while crying and yelling if you love me and trusted me you would not question me about money or anything. “I might add she claims in her profile that she does not drink or smoke”. You Americans are all a like all you think about is your money.) when I questioned her why she did not want me to come with her and her son on the trip to the sea, but she wanted me to give her money for this trip. Also she was very upset when I refuse to buy all of the clothes she wanted me to let her purchase in Paris for her and her son. I told her I would buy all of these clothes after she and her son arrived in America and I told her I did not want her to buy them in Russia or Paris and she became very upset about me saying no to her. I could not understand then why she did not want to wait to buy them in America, but now I know why and it was because she never had any intentions of coming to America and wanted to get as much as she could from me before she told me she wasn't going to come. All our disagreements were over me saying no to her request for things that she wanted then. I did said yes to many of her requests, but most I told her I would not buy them until she arrive in America. So she would get angry with me and would say they are just too expensive for you that is the reason you are saying no now. I said no that is not the reason. I only want to wait until you and son come to America and then purchase everything you and your son need then. I still bought her a lot of things clothes etc. for her and her child in Jamaica and Paris just not everything she wanted and she stilled use some of my money to buy some things in Russia also that she mentions in her e-mail to me. When I ask her to explain where all the money went that I gave her in St. Petersburg in February 2002 and in Jamaica in April 2002 she would get very upset. She would always get upset when I questioned her about using the money that I gave her for certain things and she would use it on other things and then would not ask me for money for those things she used the money for. I had given her way more money to manage on than what she was making at the time I met her. At that time she was managing on $4000 rubles ($130 US) a month that she got paid for her work at the travel agency. In the 4 months before she changed her fiancée visa interview date from 11 July 2002 to 5 September 2002. I had given her approximately $4000 in cash and spent a good deal more on her and her son. When Elena speaks about our disagreements this is what they were all about and her wanting to holiday without me, but for me to pay for her holiday and this was the same disagreements that she speaks about that took place in Jamaica and one other serious disagreement that happen in Jamaica was when I thought that her indecent display of pulling her swim suit down to her to the top of her xxxx and up into the crack of her ass in front of the Jamaican men on the beach creating vulgar and sexual comments from them toward her. I told her it was not proper behavior of a good woman and she got very angry and said I was being controlling and jealous. I told her I wouldn't accept that kind of behavior from her as my wife nor did I believe in her holidaying with out me and that is the way it would be if she wanted to marry me. This is what she is speaking of when she says the Jamaican disagreements and when she says she is sorry she hurt me. Getting back to when XXX told me about the phone call that his fiancée made to Elena and when he suspected I was being used and scammed and that Elena had no intentions of every going for the fiancée interview in July or even in September 2002 and I should not send her any money for the trip to the sea or interview trip to Moscow, but it was too late I had already sent her $2,000 the day after I got back from Paris, because I felt bad because she felt and said I did not trust her or love her or I would not have ever questioned her about the trip to the sea or the Moscow interview trip money $1,400.00. The rest is history and told in Elena’s own words in the e-mails that I have copied and pasted here.
I received this e-mail 4:31 PM 28 April 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello my Dear husband XXX!
I miss you so much and I understand how much you mean for me now. You are very good person and you are really man of my dream. I'm sorry if I hurt you when we were together at the Jamaica. I promise never hurt you as that. I really love you and we will be together soon. I love your tenderness and attention to me. I just don't use to it but now I understand all of it and I thank you. My Dear XXX I must to tell you I was happy with you I will try make you happy. I miss you so much. I want hug and kiss you again. Honey I'm lucky! Today my luggage was returned. Everything is OK. Ilya thank you for gift and kiss you.
I love you.
Lena.
I received this e-mail 7:29 AM 7 May 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello my Dear XXX!
I love you with all my heart and of course I want to see you. I thank you very much for your suggestion to go to Jamaica again and it's very nice from you. But it was enough for me I don't want to go to Jamaica I was very tired from this trip I missed very much about my son and I was very upset of situation with my luggage. I thank you for all your pleasure for me and if you want give me present for my birthday so let me go to holiday with my son for 10 days because he worked all year very hard and he really need rest on the sea. We can see each other in Paris for 2 days. It's easy to get visa for me and not so long trip. I can make reservation myself and it will be not so expensive for you. Try understanding me and don't be hurt please.
I kiss you very much and I love you.
Lena
I sent Elena this e-mail 8:06 PM 7 May 2002 my time!
To Lena my Beautiful and Loving Wife
Honey please know that I can fully understand that maybe Jamaica is not possible or a comfortable trip for you at this time. Please know that I love you very much and I miss you very deeply. There is not a moment in the day that you are not on my mind. I love you! Honey I need you now more than ever, just being with you is so important to me! I feel our love is very special, something that many people in this life may not ever be lucky enough to find. I love you and I promise to try to understand you and your needs. I feel it is very important for us to hold our love very tightly and close to our hearts in this time we are forced by governments to be apart. Honey I understand your commitments to Ilya and agree he well deserves a holiday. I love him too Lena even though I have not had the opportunity to spend very much time with him I miss him too! Honey please understand that 2 day's in Paris sounds very nice however I feel that this is not enough time for us. I need you very deeply. I love you more than you could ever know. I have found a great trust in you and a true love I have never known before in my life. Honey I need to be with you again soon and I'm very happy and prepared to fly to St. Petersburg to be with you during our wait for your visa. Yes I realize that you may have many things to do while I'm there and I completely understand. I would like to rent a nice flat and be there for you in this time of waiting. It would be a great pleasure for me to have the opportunity to spend quality time with you and Ilya in your beautiful city. I miss you!!! Maybe I could even join you and Ilya on his very special holiday to the sea. I have never seen this sea so it would be very special for me as well, especially being with you and Ilya as a complete family. It would be a lot of fun and help me to strengthen my bond and friendship with Ilya and to show him my love and my need for him as well. Something he will remember in his heart forever. I know that you need to visit your parents and spend some time with them, this is very important for you I know and I understand. Please understand honey if it is possible and you feel comfortable with this I would love to meet your parents too! I know that maybe they do not have a place for me to stay at their home and I understand completely. However honey I could rent a hotel room in the city near by their home and stay there. This would both give me the opportunity to meet them and maybe give you more comfort because you could stay with me in my hotel. I would love to maybe invite your parents
out to dinner and show them that they are very important to me too! I know that maybe you would need to help translate some of our conversations but it would be a great pleasure for me and also give your parents the opportunity to know me and see with their own eyes that I am a true and sincere man that loves their daughter with all my heart. I believe your mother and father would greatly appreciate this special gesture of love and consideration from me and from you! Then we could return to St. Petersburg together and spend some time with your friends and relatives and share our love together until your visa interview date and we could go together to Moscow and I could go with you and Ilya for your interview this is permitted and respected by embassy for the future husband to be there with his future wife. Honey this is very important to me because I love you so much and I miss you and I need you in my life now and forever. I LOVE YOU!!!
Sincerely
With All My Love
Your Loving and Devoted Husband
XXX
I received this e-mail 6:26 AM 8 May 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello Dear XXX!
I was very upset when I've got your last letters. It's remembering me Jamaica. Everything was good but suddenly you decided to go to Jamaica with me and when I said to you not you angry on me. You told me you don't understand me. OK I will try explaining. I told you before I need this 2-month to finish my deal in St-Petersburg. I should be here. I'm very busy here and it's not good idea to come to me before I come to you. If you don't want to meet me in Paris please wait for me at your home. I wanted to go with Ilya for rest. He really needs rest. He wants to be with mama. You don't understand that he not crazy about you he wants to be with mamma. For all of this need time. It's not so easy. I will spend this time with my close people in Russia. Our life with you will start in US. You can' t to come to us and be with us like father of my son. I am your wife in front of God but not in front people so I will really your wife when we will be marry in US. You say all the time I need you .You talk all the time about yourself you don't think about me. You don't think about me and don't ask me. If my opinion not like your it's make you ill. Try to think may be you need wife who will tell all the time yes Darling. For what you torment me? I have pain in my head from your letters. You write me about your job. I've asked you simply question how you earn your money if you have so much free time. And this question makes you angry too. OK not need explain to me. Nothing. I told you I want to work with you but I don't know how and my question makes you angry again. XXX I told you at the Jamaica please be patience don't try to open my mind just wait for me. Instead of my business I must to answer to you all my time. My Dear XXX don't be angry on me I love you.
I kiss you.
Lena.
I received this e-mail 3:05 PM 9 May 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello my Dear XXX! I thank you for understanding. I love you and certainly I miss you very much. Everything will be OK. I will come to you with Ilya and step by step we will begin to understand each other better. I should wait my letter from Consulate then I will to plan our trip to France for 5 days. If you agree to let us to go to holiday with Ilya so please send to me extra money. I still didn't get letter from Consulate. Now we celebrate Victory in the Second World War. All offices close till Monday. May be I will go to dacha till Sunday. My Dear XXX I am sorry if I hurt you. I felt sadness in your last letter. Please don't worry everything will be OK.
I kiss you many times.
Lena.
I received this e-mail 4:14 AM 4 June 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello Dear XXX!
I thank you for congratulations I love you and of course I miss you. Very soon we will be together in Paris and I hope everything will be OK. I want to go with you in good store to buy for you good clothe. I hope you agree with me. Dear XXX I didn't account every dollar but please be calm I don't spent my money on stupid things. I spended a lot of money on the doctors for Ilya and me except that I bought several things (bag, portpled, shoes for me and Ilya, blouse). I spend money for tickets to my mamma, visa, yellow belt, and babysitter. So I have only 400$ now (you gave me for phone) but I don't want to spend it because this is for Moscow. Extra money for Moscow tickets and rest of Ilea. I should get in Parise 1950$. May be it will be better to take this money from credit card you gave me? What do you think about it? I kiss you many times and I love you. I thank you for tender words to me.
Lena
I received this e-mail 2:25 AM 18 June 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello XXX.
Now I'm going to my mamma with Ilya. I thought a lot about you and me and I see we are very different people. You are good person and I love you as a man but I see that I can't accept your point of view. I'm sure that women should stay with somebody only when she loves him but not because she depends from him. You prefer to have women who will sit without money near by you and look in your eyes like a dog. I think you are that kind of man who not sure in himself and you try to find means to hold women and you think that if I have no money for my life I will come to you because you will pay for my life. You make mistake. Now when I comeback to St-Petersburg I will try to find work because I spent more money in last month than I wanted and I will pay my debt from 400$ and I must earn money for me and my son. Please call to Consulate and tell them what ever you want. I can't to go to Moscow for the interview.
I wish you good luck and all the best.
Lena.
I received this e-mail 6:44AM 26 June 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello XXX!
I've got all your letters and I thank you for all your love to me but I don't know why your love gives pain in my heart. I remind you your letter to me:
(Lena I am your husband and I will support you, which I thought I have been doing and besides to $400 I gave you in Jamaica for replacement of your work money from when you got back from Jamaica until you came to me that I had estimated to be 2 1/2 months 26 April to first part of July 2002 that is why I gave you $400 because I knew you got paid 4000 rubles ($130) each month from work. I also thought you had the $400 from the phone money since you were not able to get a phone installed. I also thought also based $400 I gave you for the English lessons for you and Ilya which you and I thought would pay for 5 months (March, April, May, June, July), but you wrote me on 26 March 2002 that Ilya's lessons would be a little more 140 rubles yours would remain the same. I wrote you back on 26 March 2002 and told you this was ok because even with this new price you still had enough money for Ilya's lesson until first part of July 2002 and since your English lessons were still the same you could use some of the money that we set a side for your lessons for Ilya's lessons into July if you had not gotten your visa yet and came to me. Also I said I would send you more money for Ilya and your lessons if all money was used and you had not gotten your visa yet. So if you have used all money I gave you for yours and Ilya's English lessons I will send you more. Until I meet you in Paris 9 June 2002 use some of the $400 phone money if you have any of it to use if not then use some of the $400 I gave you as expense money for replacement of your job money. Honey I will send you whatever is necessary please explain your finacial situation to me and
what you need. You being an accountant what do you have left of $400 phone money and where was that money used if it is gone. I know you said you still have some of the 400 I gave you for job replacement money. Do you have enough to manage until we meet in Paris? Please explain your situation to me and if necessary I will send you money before we meet in Paris. I do not want you having to ask friends for money like for 2000 rubles for trip to your Mom's. Lena I thought you had plenty of money until you tell me you do
not. Please explain your situation. I will be glad to send you more money and I will understand if you have used some of the money or even all of the $400 phone money on something else, but I would like to know what you used it for. Lena you are accountant and I know you know if $400 phone money is gone you know where you used it. Please explain this is all I ask. I do not mind replacing it and I do not mind giving you money for anything you need all you have to do is ask. I wish I could read your mind, but I cannot no matter how hard I try. Ha Ha! I love you and Ilya just explain what you need and I will send it to you or give it to you in Paris. I have no problem with supporting my wife and son and my finances are good. Please do not worry your man will be good and real man and provide for his family, but you have to explain when and how much you need and for what and I will send. Honey I know how hard it is to manage money and I understand if you have used it in others areas this is ok. I know you thought it appropriate or you would not have used it that way. Just explain to me this and what you need and I will send money or bring it to Paris and give it to you then. I love you and Ilya and I want you to have the money you need. Do not be worried about this. I am not upset. I am laughing I think it funny My Beautiful Russian Accountant Wife use up all her money and afraid to explain to American Husband. HaHa) I wrote to you my expenses and you could send to me money by Western Union but you told me that you would bring me money in Paris. I said to you OK and I went to Paris to be absolutely sure that you will do what you promised to me. Then I've got what I've got. You say to me that you love me so much but you very easy change your mind and of course you know my reaction on this. You love me so much but you don't afraid hurt my soul of your actions. Because you know very well how to control women who live without money. I spended money that you gave me only on my life. I didn't drink vodka I didn't go to expensive restaurant but I
couldn't imagine that I must remember every my dollar and every ruble that you gave me. I wrote to you that I bought several things except we talked and I thought that if I ask you about it you will give me money for that when it will be convenient. Probably you have not enough money and everything expensive for you and Paris show it. It does explain everything. Nobody torment me with money like you. I told you before that I should work mush for supporting of my family and my son. I thank you for money ($2,000 that I sent 20 June 2002) but if you agree with me I will take only 600# because I must return debt and I gave some money for funeral of my aunt Polina older sister of my father. She is died last Friday. I should help of my mother she broke her arm very serious. I can send to you back the others money because I decided to reschedule interview in Moscow on more late date. I need time it was very hurt for me I should to be calm I don't want to be harrying with that. I still couldn't forget about last trip.
I wish you all the best.
Sincerely
Lena
I sent this e-mail 9:26AM 28 June 2002 my time to Elena
My Dearest Wife Elena
I love you with all my heart and soul and I am so sorry we are at this
terrible stage in our relationship and future marriage in America. I can see
now that the money issues have, seriously hurt our loving relationship.... I
blame myself for this, as I have begun to realize how much of a
misunderstanding that has been created by me asking you for an accounting of
the money I have given you. I did not mean to hurt you or cause pain in
your heart over these money issues....Perhaps, I have not explained myself
correctly, to you in a way that we both could understand. So I want to start
our relationship in a new way if possible. To show you my trust in you, I
want you to put the $1400 dollars in your bank account there in St.
Petersburg you told me you had and use it in Sept. when you go for your
visa. This I hope will show you I love and trust you and that I can afford
not to have the money returned to me. Both of us must work to understand why
the money misunderstandings have occurred as I have said, many times
starting in February that I was not a wealthy (Rich) man, however I could
give you and your son a comfortable life style. I have tried to show you
this, with trips to Montego Bay, Jamaica ( over $4,000 in cost) for 2 weeks
and Paris, France ( over $4,000 in cost) for a week that I could afford to
give you and Ilya a good life, but somehow these trips especially the one in
Paris have hurt our relationship rather than helped it. Generally, money has
been the cause, and i just don't know why ..... maybe (as the bible and
XXXtain church says money is the root of all evil) Yes, I have money to
take care you and Ilya....however, I do work toward a budget, and can't buy
everything I want when I want. However, over time I have been able to get
the things I have wanted...... and I believe I can make you happy and give
you a good life style.....I hope you can see this even though I know there
is still anger in your heart...... Please try and forgive me and lets try to
work together to understand better why the money has become so important in
our relationship. You told me in St. Petersburg that me not being a rich man
was not important to you and that me being a good man and your love for me
and my love for you were your most important concerns. I believe if we do
this together, and work on this we will begin to understand other issues in
our life together, for the future. Let me know how you feel about my e-mail
so we can begin with a new start.
P.S. Elena please send me this letter that you said XXX wrote Svetlana,
XXX has called me and told me about your talk about this letter to Ksenia
mother it was wrong of you to do this, but its your deal. It hurt me what
you had to say about me to Ksenia mother. It also hurt me very much that you
changed your interview date without talking to me when you and I had agreed
in Paris the first day not to do such things anymore without talking to each
other first. I talked with the Consulate General James Warlick in Moscow
about changing it back to 11 July 2002 and he said NO it was not possible
it had been changed to 5 September 2002 at 8am by your request and my only
choice was to cancel the visa interview and end everything. I told him I did
not want to do that at this time. I wanted to give our relationship time to
heal and become what it once was if you and I can find middle with our
difficulties. I hope and pray this will be possible with us. I do love you
so very much Elena. I want a marriage with you very much, but I am not sure
you really want one with me. I think you really want a man with more money
than I have to spend on you. I really have no idea what you really want or
expect from me in our marriage. I have offered you all I have, but I am not
sure it is enough to make you happy. I await your thoughts and opinions on
what I am writing to you in this letter of love and respect for whom I
really believe to be my Wife in the eyes of God and myself. I wish our
feeling now were like they were the day this picture was taken that I have
attached. I am so sorry for what I have done to bring us away from these
feeling of love and respect we had this day together.
Your Loving Husband
XXX
I received this e-mail 10:05 AM 29 June 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello Dear XXX.
I've got your letter and I will try to answer on your questions. I remember that you told me that you are not rich man and if you remember I never ask you about to give a lot of money. Only one time I asked you about 800# for my rest with Ilea and only because I see that you can spend money on trip to Pairs (I didn't want to spend your money on this trip but after trip to Jamaica you started to ask me very much about it). In February you told me that we could meet each other in any place that I want. Why you didn 't told me that all of this expensive for you? You asked to me to meet you in Paris but it was very expensive for you too? You should to tell me: Lena I have very small money so I will wait you in US and I can give you money only on the tickets and thing like that. I can not to give you money on the shopping in Russia or in Paris. Why do you buy for me gold ring at Jamaica if diner in the restaurant in Paris is expensive for you? What did you try to show me with that? I didn't try to take your money. I wanted to be marrying with good man. And if you have not money just tell me honestly and don't try to show me of your good life style. I have good life style even if I leave in Russia. I have not a lot of money but I have good school for Ilya I live in beautiful city I have my friends and my close people with me. I wanted from you only love. I don't want to cry every time when I see you and when you will treat me with every dollar. I think you saw that I love you as a man and I have good sex with you but every time when we start to talk about something else we have disagreements. We have a lot disagreement. That is why I decided to reschedule interview. XXX it was my decision. And your decision to cancel interview at all. I still can send to you your money and if you want we can stay of a friends.
Lena
PS.
I did not discuss you as a person with mother of Ksenia. I only translate her letter. If you remember YOU asked me to help them. Please don't write to me any more about XXX. It would be better if you ask LETTER from him (if you need it). I don't want to do something else with their problems. Because if something happen XXX will tell you that it's blame of Lena.
I received this e-mail 10:33 AM 19 July 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello Dear XXX!
I congratulate you with your birthday and I wish you all the best. 55yers it 's excellent. This is age of real man and I believe that you'll have good future. I forgive you for your mistake in Paris and I love you. You are good person but sometimes we do something strange. Please don't think about it. Leave all these problem (I mean our problem) in a past. If we will think about all the time we will be crazy. Now I feel better and I believe everything will be OK.
I wish all the best to your family. Kiss from me for Dilan.
Lena
I sent this e-mail 8:47AM 21 July 2002 my time to Elena!
Hello My Dearest Wife Elena
I have been here sitting at my computer for 4 hours now on my birthday
morning trying to think of what to you write you about and all I can think
about is these questions to ask you.
(1) Am I still the only man in your life?
(2) Am I still your husband in your eyes and do you still feel in eyes of
God too?
(3) Am I still the man of your dreams?
(4) Are you talking and meeting other men to decide the answer to these
questions that I have just asked?
(5) Are you showing me proper respect (In Your Behavior as my
engaged/fiancée) and me being your patience and understanding fiancé that
is waiting for you?
(6) Are you going to Hollywood's nights and talking with men?
(7) Are you meeting with them later for diner or other things if you find
them interesting?
(8) Have you kept your promise to be faithful to me in your heart?
(9) Are you keeping yourself sexually just for me as you have promised me?
Elena these are only questions that I beg of you to answer honestly and from
your heart and I will believe you and no one else. I trust you completely
and believe you have never lied to me and I believe you will not lie to me
now. I love you and I know you love me, but I need to know where you have me
placed in your life now after what happened in Paris between us and at what level (Husband, Soul mate, Partner in life, Lover, Best Friend or just Friend)? What do I mean to you Elena? These are serious questions to me and I must have answers from your
heart and soul. Elena I believe in you as my wife, soul mate, partner in life, lover and most of all my best friend. This has not changed for me from the very beginning when I told you that you were all this and even more to me. I know we have had many difficulties, but my feelings for you have never changed. I believe that all our difficulties can be solved with true love, understanding and patience between us. P.S. Elena I need this relationship between you and I as it was in these two pictures. We are connected as one with real love and happiness with the other.
Sincerely
With All My Love & Understanding
Your Patience Husband
XXX
I received this e-mail 2:53 AM 23 July 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello Dear XXX!
I hope everything is OK with you. I understand your worries and I will answer on all your questions. I thought a lot about you and me and I remember all beautiful times in our past. You are very nice man I know it. I thank you for all nice things that you gave me but all our problems hurt me very much. I thought that if two person love each other they could to overcome difficulties between them but I understood now that sometimes it's impossible. I understood that we are very different people. We did not understand each other in the very easy situations. It started in Jamaica and if you remember I was upset from that. I think that joint life should start when people understand each other absolutely. When people fall in love it's good but it's not enough. You know that I can understand all problems of man (sex, age, and money) and I told you about it in February but now too much for me I could not imagine that it will be like that. It was not only your mistake. It was your nature. And I understood that unfortunately I could not accept this. I'm sure XXX that there is somewhere woman for you and you will meet her very soon and me as you’re the best friend and lover can help you with that and I promise it. Please don't be hurt. I'm sure your life only start now you will be happy and I will help you. Remember I am your best friend and lover. I hope to see your smiling face with dimples very soon. I kiss you many times.
I love you.
Lena
I received this e-mail 1:13 PM 26 October 2002 my time from Elena!
Dear XXX, your soul are dark, you make ill for people who nothing did for you. I was agree to be marry you because I thought that you are good person but you started torment me. Probably you don't understand it that's why you continue make ill for me, my sister and according to our children. Just try to think you wish bad things for women and her child only because I have debt to you. You forgot that you promise to give this money to me till I find work. You spend money on other women much more right now. I wish you to be happy with new women in Jamaica. I'm not liar but you are liar because you told me that you love me. If man loves woman he don't do bad things for her. I forgive you for all what you did for my family and me and I will pray God forgive your dark soul.
Lena
I sent this e-mail 2:39 PM 26 October 2002 my time to Elena!
My Dearest Elena
XXX and I have done nothing more than tell the truth to XXX and we will continue telling the truth to the I. N..S. and the U.S. Embassy in Moscow and the St. Petersburg Police and I see it must be causing difficulties for the liars and thieves and for this we make no apologies. XXX and I wish you and Ksenia only the best and we seek only that you and Ksenia be rewarded for your honest treatment of us as your fiancé's. P.S. If you and Ksenia want to send XXX and I the $1400 US dollars you each stole from us. We would be more than happy to notify XXX, The I.N.S., The U.S. Embassy and the St. Petersburg Police of this, and we are willing to forgive you and Ksenia for all the other monies you and Ksenia liar to get from us from the beginning when these pictures were taken.
Sincerely
Your #2 Ex-Fiancee
XXX
I received this e-mail 5:33 PM 26 October 2002 my time from Elena!
Dear XXX I knew all this month that you worry only about money. I told you before that I can return it to you but not now and you were agree with that. You forgot everything. I repeat to you I will do this as soon as I earn it. If you can not wait when woman with small child earn it what can I do. You can do what ever you want.
Lena
P.S. I don't know about Ksenia.
I sent this e-mail 6:26 AM 27 October 2002 my time to Elena!
My Dearest Elena
No! It's not about the Moscow money you stole from me, and I would like to make this perfectly clear I never agreed for you to take this money nor did I agree that it was a loan to you. I only said that you should not have taken this money without asking me and that I did not believe you would ever give me this money back and you were a thief and liar. It's all about your lies to me ELENA! You know all the lies about you loving me and wanting to marry me. Elena you lied to me from the very beginning of our relationship to the end. Elena you scammed me and the pity of it all is that I truly loved you, but it was all about money and holiday enjoyment at my expense for you. You prostituted yourself with the pretence you were engaged/married to me in Montego Bay and Paris and in St. Petersburg before you told me about taking the Moscow money. It was all about you getting money and gifts from me. Just like when you wanting me to buy all the clothes for you and Ilya in Russia or Paris not in America because you never ever had any intentions of coming to America. Just like when you wanted the Moscow Interview trip expenses money and the trip to Turkey for rest with Ilya and Your Russian Man that likes to call you Honey (because you sure did not want me to come along, but it was alright to scam the money from me for the trip) before you came to Paris and if I would have sent it to you. You would have never came to Paris and you would have stole the Paris trip money that I sent you too. Yes! Elena I am going to do everything in my power to expose your deeds and keep you from doing this to some other man. Keep your Russian man that calls you honey, because if I have my way he is the only man you will ever have and if I can ever get in contact with him. I will expose all your deeds to him also, because I am sure her knows nothing about your deeds of prostitution with me, Jack and John. I believe he will find the photos I have very convincing of your deeds of prostitution as far as that goes so will the St. Petersburg Police and I believe the Russian tax collector maybe very interested in the money you received from me and stole from me. He may very well want the taxes you owe on this money. Elena you are so right about my soul being dark, because you are the one that made it dark and please do not pray for my soul. Elena pray for your soul because you are the thief and liar. I am only the one you lied to and stole from and that is all that I have said to XXX is the truth about our relationship. So Elena sleep well and remember when your ass is freezing and you have no money and things are so difficult. That you had a chance for a good life with a good man who really loved you, but you chose to be a liar and thief instead of good wife and mother. You have cheated your son Ilya out of good life and future also with your deeds and choices. P.S. Elena here is a couple of pictures that I will send to the St. Petersburg Police and Russian Tax Collectors office when I get the time to report your deeds to them.
Sincerely
Your Ex Fiancee # 2
XXX
I received this e-mail 3:52 PM 27 October 2002 from Elena!
XXX!
You are ill man now you are mad! All what you write not true. You forgot I never ask you about money you send it to me myself. I did not want to go to Jamaica second time because you torment to me. I did not want to go to Paris. You ask me about it. All what you wanted to have sex with me because nobody want to have sex with you in US. I was correct with you but you ask me make pornographic pictures. XXX you are jealous and greed for money. I did not ask spend money on me and if you write to everybody about me dirty things you are mad. Everybody will think that you are mad. You walk on my street and make pictures of my home it's unbelievable! Try to think about it. Please be calm and I will send to you money back very soon. Please tell me do you agree wait two month or not?
Lena.
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