UPDATE
2003-01-03
This girl also has an ad on SoulMates.Com, claims to live in Kharkiv, uses
the name Tanya there, uses this e-mail tanya1@hotpop.com, and uses this
photo (among others).
Some of her letters
Dear Will !
I'm so happy to get a letter from you. I must tell you that I use
Internet in search of my soul mate for the first time and I'm not
experienced in this :)
Your letter show so much beauty in your heart
that I am overwhelmed. There is such a trueness and
honesty. And it is these qualities that I am
attracted to.
Unfortunately I don't have a computer at home, so I have to use the
help of the Internet cafe to write you. I hope it won't be an obstacle
for our correspondence.
And now I want to tell you more about myself.
I am 23 now. I live in a nice and small town in the eastern
part of Ukraine. I live alone and work as a shop assistant in the
large department store. I am an attractive woman with the kind and
generous heart , and besides, I am very optimistic, energetic and
positive. I can say that I'm happy and I have everything.
But there is a dream and I want it to come true.
I'm dreaming about a large house in the seashore. I'd like to have
at least a couple of children and a loving husband.
I'll give all my heart to that man, I'll warm him with my smile and
take care about him. So you have already guessed that I'm rather
tender creature. I'm very sociable person and have a lot of friends,
who share my interests. We often have fun together in the bar or at
the disco.
Frankly speaking I'm eager to have a man nearby to me who
will accept and share all the contradictions of my character.
Besides I like cooking very much and my friends and parents say that
everything I cook is very tasty. I'm fond of inventing some new
dishes and making delicious surprises for all the people around me.
My heart and soul are full of passion and romantic feelings. I'm eager
to meet a man who will value all my qualities. I would like to see a
tenderhearted, loving, reliable and very sociable man beside me. My
love does not have any sense without the man and I'm too tired of
being lonely. I' sure that neither distance nor time won't be able to
hamper our relations. I hope to find in you the man of my dream. I
believe we'll find very much in common and walk together hand in hand
on the rode of love.
Dear Will, please send me your photos and tell more about
yourself. I hope we will be able to find good sides of each other.
I am anxious to get news from you soon.
Take care! Anna.
Hello, my dearest Will!!!!
I was so happy to receive your wonderful letter today!!!!
Thank you for your photos also!
As soon as I read your e-mail it cheered me up. I like talking to you over
e-mail because it allows me to share my deepest feelings and not feel shy or
embarrassed. If we had met in a bar for the first time I do not think we
would have become aware of each others inner selves because we would have
had only a shallow conversation. I am so happy that we can share and feel
each others most secret emotions. I hope it continues...
It gives me pleasure to get news from you. It's so great to have a person who
is so far from you and wit the same time is so close. I appreciate in
people not the appearance but the inner world. And my intuition tells
me that you're honest and with me. I believe everything you tell about
yourself, so I'll be frank with you as well. I think that really
strong relations are based on mutual trust and respect. If there is
trust, there will be love, care, attraction, passion.
Dear, I'd love to know more about your interests and hobbies, your way
of life, family, work and friends...
I have never been married and have no children.
Dear Will, may be you wonder why I am still lonely. The thing
is that almost all men in Ukraine are selfish and even rude with
women. And as for me I can't stand it, as you see, I'm a tender and
loveable creature, as you can guess.
And now some information about
my family. I have an elder brother. He is a vet (so he cures animals).
We live with our parents in a small apartment. They are
both pensioners.
My hobbies and interests are versatile.
One of them is reading. I'm well read . In literature I
prefer only classics. I've read the most popular things of every
century. My favorite writers are Gugo, W. Scott, Dostoevsky,
Shakespeare and many others. I wonder what you prefer in literature
and what Russian writers you have read.
I must confess that I have a
dream. I want to travel all over the world. Unfortunately I haven't
been abroad, I visited only the countries of the former USSR. I'd love
to see the most wonderful, famous places of the world, but I have no
opportunity to do it, so it's only my dream. If I find my soul mate
and we fall in love, I'll go with him to the world's end. And, by the
way Ukraine is not very good country to live in.
I'll send you more of my photos, hope you'll like them. Have a nice day.
I'm looking forward to hearing from you soon, and to seeing your photos too.
Always yours, Anna.
Hello, my sweet heart, Will!!!
I'm so happy to get your soon reply! I appreciate your honesty, dear!
I came to know you better and better, dear...
And I'm happy about it!
You told me so lot about your life, and every piece of information
about you and your life is very much interesting for me, Will...
I have some questions for you, dear, I hope you won't mind answering
them...
What kind of music do like ? books ? movies ? Do you like sea,
mountains, big cities ? What have you heard of Ukraine ? I have never
been to either places you mentioned, but hope to one day soon. I'm
just dreaming about it always...
I would love to tell you some words about my work, maybe it will be
interesting for you. In any case, I think it will help me to
understand me better.
So, I'm working in a large department store, but I think that it's
large for me, for our town, But if you manage to see, dear Will, I
think it will seem a small one to you :)
I'm working as an assistant there and I sell toys. I like my work
only because I have to communicate with kids in general. And I enjoy
them very much, they are so cure and funny! They look at the toys with
widely open eyes full of excitement. But sometimes I feel very sorry
when a child comes to the department and look at the toys with greedy
eyes, as he had never had such toys in his life. At such moments I
wish to have a lot of money to give lots of toys to the kids they
need them.
I like toys I must tell you, dear, especially those that are soft and
big...
I work five days a week, dear, and I'm at my work from 9 am till 6
pm. I must tell , my dear Will, that not a lot of people in Ukraine
have a car and go to work by it. So, I usually walk or sometimes I take
a bus to get there.
I will gladly answer your questions, dear Will. First of all, my
height is 173 centimeters.
As for your question about where I live, I must tell you that in my
first letter I wanted to tell that I don't live alone, but I have made
a mistake. I think it's my bad knowing of English I think.
I felt that you are skeptical about the fact that I consider all the
men in Ukraine to be so rude and selfish. I think they don't take a
woman like the men in the countries abroad.
My dear Will, I didn't understand what you wanted to tell about the
Russian and Ukrainian women. Maybe you will explain it to me. I felt
that the were some notes of mistrust or accuse... I didn't
understand...I'm sorry for my English...
I like the way you share your thoughts with me, my dear Will.
And I want to share some of them with you...
My thoughts about I feel as though I'm a fairly simple
person, I like some materialistic things but my life does not revolve
around them. I am a very gentle,tender,affectionate,
romantic,loving,caring,compassionate,giving,understanding, loyal a
great sense of humor and yes, sexy too!I think I am a person who
understands the dynamics of a serious friendship and relationship and
is prepared to make the commitment. I am looking for my partner, my
other half which would make my life and his complete. First and
foremost I need my best friend. Friendship is based on is based on
mutual respect and trust for each other, this mandatory because best
friends tell and share everything with each other. Once you have
those in common with each other unconditional love for each other
should be there and that is to accept each other for who, what and
how we are as people without the intention of changing that person to
who,what or how we think that person should be! When 2 people fall
in Love there are allot of things going on emotionally,physically
and hormonally and eventually this conditions settle down and reality
of real life sets in. It is easy to fall in love but it is hard work
to stay in love and to keep the fires of passion burning brightly and
requires both parties participation to make it work. When we fall in
love, we as humans often overlook or not pay attention to qualities
or traits of the other person that might be a source of concern. Now
that there are mutual respect, trust and unconditional love present
the most important conditions automatically there COMMUNICATION.
Now there is nothing you can't talk about, work out or accomplish and
there is no limit as to how far your love can be taken because there
are two people living for each other and with the desire for the
common goal of eternal love for each other. There is nothing more
rewarding or satisfying that when 2 people from their love for each
other, make love, create love and extend their love through their
children. I believe this called the cycle of life.
I hope my letter won't be too boring for you.
So, my dear Will, I hope to get your reply soon and maybe your photo
and I'm thinking about you every day.
Your Anna, thinking of you and waiting for your reply.
P.S. I will gladly teach you Russian, dear!
Hello, my dearest Will!!!
I'm so happy that you didn't forget me during these days, dear.
I'm very glad to read all your letters.
I'm sorry for keeping silence these days, but I mentioned that I have
fallen ill, dear Will, and I couldn't come to the cafe to write you a
letter.
But now I'm feeling much better and I'm very happy to find put that
you are thinking of me, dear.
I promise to write you more regularly, honey, and I must tell you that
I like all your letters. They are so charming and sincere! I
appreciate it very much. I realized from the very beginning that you
have a poetic soul, my dear, and that is the first thing that attracts
me to you...
I had to stay in the hospital again because I felt worse. So, I had to
stay for a week and now I'm ready to start my work already.
I will be at my work form Tuesday, dear Will.
I hope you will write me a letter telling everything about what you
did during this time, dear, and how you spend the weekend.
We will have holiday in Ukraine on Monday and everything will be
closed. It will be the Independence Day in Ukraine.
Actually we have it today, on Saturday, but we have law in our country
according to which the holiday can be transferred to another day if it
happened to be on weekend.
So, I will tell you about how I spend this holiday on Monday.
I hope to hear your voice one day, my dear Will.
I send you my kiss and tight embrace.
Your Anna, thinking of you.